Dealing with finances after a loved one’s death is overwhelming. This step-by-step checklist organizes everything by priority and timeline so nothing falls through the cracks.
Quick answer: Get 10–15 certified death certificates first. File life insurance claims immediately. Don’t pay the deceased’s debts from personal funds. Notify Social Security, banks, and employers within the first week. Most estates take 6–12 months to fully settle.
Immediate (First 1–3 Days)
Task
Details
Secure the home
Lock up, collect mail, adjust thermostat
Locate important documents
Will, trust, insurance policies, financial account info
Contact funeral home
Arrange services, obtain death certificates
Order 10–15 certified death certificates
From county vital records or funeral home ($5–$25 each)
Notify immediate family
Coordinate with family on decisions
Contact employer (if employed)
Ask about final paycheck, benefits, life insurance
First Week
Task
Details
Notify Social Security
Call 1-800-772-1213; surviving spouse may get $255 lump sum
Property taxes, insurance, mortgage — protect the asset
Don’t sign anything from debt collectors
They may try to trick you into accepting liability
Don’t delay on life insurance claims
Some policies have time limits
Don’t skip the credit freeze
Identity theft of deceased individuals is extremely common
Costs of Settling an Estate
Expense
Typical Cost
Death certificates (10–15)
$50–$375
Funeral/burial
$7,000–$12,000
Probate court fees
$200–$1,000
Attorney fees (if needed)
$2,000–$10,000+
Executor fees (if non-family)
2–5% of estate value
Appraisals
$300–$500 per property
Tax preparation (final return)
$300–$1,000
Bottom Line
The most important things: secure documents, get death certificates, file insurance claims, and freeze credit. Everything else can wait a few weeks. Don’t pay any debts from your personal funds — debts are the estate’s responsibility. If the estate is complex, hire a probate attorney. If it’s simple with named beneficiaries on all accounts, you may be able to handle it yourself.